Tag: family
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Narcissistic Control and Using a Child to Get It

People see a turned-off phone and think it’s just a phone. But when communication has been repeatedly controlled, limited, or used as leverage, it stops being about technology. It becomes about access. It becomes about control. Most people think control looks like yelling, threats, or obvious abuse. Sometimes it looks much quieter than that. Sometimes…
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What It’s Really Like to Co-Parent with a Narcissist

Ever wondered what having a narcissistic co-parent is like? Let me tell you—it’s a constant battle. The Never-Ending Struggle: Unpaid Medical Bills Let’s start with something simple: unpaid medical bills.Per our divorce decree and parenting plan, all medical expenses are to be shared. Sly is responsible for 70% of them. The court document is clear—it…
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Co-Parenting with a Narcissist: A Struggle for Control

When Co-Parenting With a Narcissist Becomes a Battle Over Control You all know that when I sit down to write a blog post, it usually means something has happened with Sly. And honestly, it’s not just a one-time thing—it’s a repeated pattern. This time, it revolves around the parenting app we’re court ordered to use.…
