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Today we’re going to address trauma responses – what they are, why we have them, how to live with them, and how to gain back our freedom from them. We’ve already discussed what trauma is in a previous post. For this post, we’re going to discuss the trauma only from narcissistic abuse…because well, that’s what…
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Today we’re going to talk about the narcissist and their flying monkeys. No, that’s not a term that I came up with, but it is a term often referred to as the people that the narcissists persuade and convince that the victim of their abuse is really the problem. When we think of Flying Monkeys,…
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As most of you know, I have one daughter, with my ex-narcissistic husband. I have done an exorbitant amount of research and reading about narcissists and how they ‘raise’ and treat their children. I have also witnessed the negative behaviors and words towards my daughter. She is still young, but has been greatly impacted by…
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According to the definition, trauma is a deeply distressing or disturbing experience. It can also be some type of physical injury. I am certain that most people, young and old, have experienced some sort of trauma in their life. A death of a loved one, an accident, physical abuse, witnessing a natural disaster, witnessing war…
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What is a narcissist???
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The answer to this question… is simply no. Everything continued the same as it was before. Now that the divorce was final, it didn’t change a thing. Sly still constantly argued about what was “best” for Chloe, and how to make sure he told me how horrible of a mother I was. Then the bad…
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Everything was an argument. I spent most of my days trying to explain things to him, and why he was wrong or hurtful. The hits from him just kept coming. Looking back on all of the messages, it does bring back a bit of the anxiety, anger and helplessness that I felt years ago. Narcissists…
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The day has come, all of your stuff is packed in boxes, you have a basic written agreement about child sharing, you’ve spoken to your child about the separation and upcoming divorce, people are lined up to help you move, and you’re prepared to start off on your new life without the narcissist. That’s all…
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I’m going to take a moment and write about that “a-ha” moment when you’re sitting there feeling like you’re losing your mind, and you realize you are in fact dealing with a narcissist. When you’re in a relationship with a narcissist, you often don’t realize it until it’s either too late, or you leave. Truth…
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