• This post is going to deviate a little bit from my other posts thus far. As a victim of narcissistic abuse there are a number of emotional and physical things our bodies and minds go through as we embark on the healing process. The time abused by a narcissist varies and every situation is different,…

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  • Desperation

    One word that isn’t under the Narcissistic Dictionary is Desperation. Although, Narcissists are incredibly desperate to keep their egos inflated. They will go to the ends of the earth to make themselves look like a saint, when they are quite the contrary. They will spend hours constructing lies and story lines to persuade others that you are the…

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  • What is Lost

    Not a question, but a statement of what we lose when we go through a separation of any sort from a narcissist. There are losses in any divorce or ending of a relationship, sure. In those cases, you usually lose money, some friends and family on your ex’s side, time with your kids due to…

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  • A Victim’s Experience

    A Victim’s Experience… Just a few of the things I have personally and recently experienced.

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  • Trauma Responses

    Today we’re going to address trauma responses – what they are, why we have them, how to live with them, and how to gain back our freedom from them. We’ve already discussed what trauma is in a previous post. For this post, we’re going to discuss the trauma only from narcissistic abuse…because well, that’s what…

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  • Flying Monkeys

    Today we’re going to talk about the narcissist and their flying monkeys. No, that’s not a term that I came up with, but it is a term often referred to as the people that the narcissists persuade and convince that the victim of their abuse is really the problem. When we think of Flying Monkeys,…

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  • As most of you know, I have one daughter, with my ex-narcissistic husband. I have done an exorbitant amount of research and reading about narcissists and how they ‘raise’ and treat their children. I have also witnessed the negative behaviors and words towards my daughter. She is still young, but has been greatly impacted by…

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  • Abuse

    Hey, everyone. Sorry its been a hot minute since I last wrote, but work has been crazy and we’ve been busy as a family. A lot has also happened recently on “the other side” that I’ll write about in later posts. I’ve been trying to decide what my next blog post would be about, until…

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  • What is Trauma?

    According to the definition, trauma is a deeply distressing or disturbing experience. It can also be some type of physical injury. I am certain that most people, young and old, have experienced some sort of trauma in their life. A death of a loved one, an accident, physical abuse, witnessing a natural disaster, witnessing war…

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  • What is a Narcissist?

    What is a narcissist???

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