• The answer to this question… is simply no. Everything continued the same as it was before. Now that the divorce was final, it didn’t change a thing. Sly still constantly argued about what was “best” for Chloe, and how to make sure he told me how horrible of a mother I was. Then the bad…

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  • Everything was an argument. I spent most of my days trying to explain things to him, and why he was wrong or hurtful. The hits from him just kept coming. Looking back on all of the messages, it does bring back a bit of the anxiety, anger and helplessness that I felt years ago. Narcissists…

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  • The day has come, all of your stuff is packed in boxes, you have a basic written agreement about child sharing, you’ve spoken to your child about the separation and upcoming divorce, people are lined up to help you move, and you’re prepared to start off on your new life without the narcissist. That’s all…

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  • The A-HA Moment

    I’m going to take a moment and write about that “a-ha” moment when you’re sitting there feeling like you’re losing your mind, and you realize you are in fact dealing with a narcissist. When you’re in a relationship with a narcissist, you often don’t realize it until it’s either too late, or you leave. Truth…

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  • And moving on…

    I’m going to try and make this the last post on the basic story line… but that will all depend on distractions as it is Monday. The start of 2015 was the same as all of the years past. In the early months of that year we (by we, I mean I) started planning a…

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  • New Year’s was nothing to write home about, but most holidays were ruined in one way or another. January 5, 2011 was a day that would change my life forever, because of the choices I made and because of the actions of one person. I am sure you can guess who that person is. The…

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  • I’m going to make this next chapter as short and sweet as possible. There are other topics that I want to get into, but I still feel that the base story is important here. At the time, it seemed normal enough and I want to share that. Knowing my experience, and listening to most others…

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  • The Beginning

    I have a story to tell, and every story has a beginning. My story began in the spring of 2008, on my brother’s wedding day in March. After the ceremony, I remember standing outside the building where the reception was being held. There were two guys standing outside near me, one of them which I…

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  • First…some things

    Well, we have to start somewhere… People in my life have told me that I should write a book to share my story, my journey, over the past fourteen years or so. I’ve said for years that I needed to write… a blog, maybe? I want to reach people who have gone through, or are…

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